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Can't really put into words how I feel hearing this news, just about everyone else has been much more eloquent than I could be. For the second time we have returned from France to hear that Deb is in hospital, with a poor prognosis. Deb fought back after her accident, and both Jo and I hope and pray that she will pull through this latest set back. Send her our love, and as others have said, Ian, make sure you look after yourself while supporting Deb.
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« Reply #46 on: September 04, 2012, 09:53:50 am » |
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Double crossing everything now. I hope this works out well. Keep positive everyone, and Ian, you look after yourself too. If you need owt at all, just ask.
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« Reply #47 on: September 04, 2012, 09:57:33 am » |
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All i can say is I'm wshing for a good outcome, you're both in my thoughts at this time
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« Reply #48 on: September 04, 2012, 01:07:01 pm » |
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Ian, my thoughts are with you and Deb, nothing can make these times easy, but I wish you strength.
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« Reply #49 on: September 04, 2012, 02:14:51 pm » |
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I'm not sure that I can say something that hasn't already been said but I too want to extend my sincerest wishes to both of you in what must be truly awful times.
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« Reply #50 on: September 04, 2012, 03:18:53 pm » |
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I'm very sorry to hear this Ian. Words cannot express how I feel about this. Wishing both of you all the strength in the world.
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« Reply #51 on: September 04, 2012, 05:51:11 pm » |
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Ian words can simply not express my feeling and thoughts with you at this time. Send my love to Debs who im glad ive met in good health
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« Reply #52 on: September 04, 2012, 07:57:37 pm » |
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Wishing you both the best - keep strong Ian and our thoughts are with you & Debs.
We are in the vendee and travel back via Rouen on thurs/Friday - if there is anything that we can do then please let me know!
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« Reply #53 on: September 04, 2012, 09:53:41 pm » |
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So sorry to hear this Ian, our thoughts prayers and best wishes are with you and Debs, to coin you kind words to Brad, We think She's a Hell of a Girl.
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« Reply #54 on: September 05, 2012, 09:57:14 am » |
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I was invited yesterday to stay in Deb's bedroom ovenight, and my night at the hospital could certainly have been worse. I arrived about 8, and the bed was all made up. Deb was being a bit restless, kept displacing the oxy mask. When I replaced it and asked her to wear it "just for me", there was a bit of a nod. Later in the night the nurses were concerned that she was displacing the bedclothes as well, and applied a foil blanket - surely the world's noisest bed-linen when the patient is restless! Deb has a history of waking up with fewer covers than she started with, so this was not news to me. About 2 they found it "necessary" to change the bed (i.e. it was!), but seemed to do so without any resentment. They also adjusted the medication, and from then on Deb slept soundly, as did I for a few hours. Regular checks were made throughout the night and I cannot fault the service, really, just smashing girls. I left just after 7, drove the 25 miles home in the overcast dawn. I am welcome there tonight - if there is a need.
Thankyou for all the warmth. I am finding it very therapeutic to write this stuff down, but apologise for sometimes providing "too much information". It is quite hard to be truly balanced in every judgement just now!
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« Reply #55 on: September 05, 2012, 10:06:18 am » |
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Thankyou for all the warmth. I am finding it very therapeutic to write this stuff down, but apologise for sometimes providing "too much information". It is quite hard to be truly balanced in every judgement just now!
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« Reply #56 on: September 05, 2012, 10:40:53 am » |
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never apologise for doing what feels right.
Keep Debs as comfortable as you can.
My thoughts and hopes are with you both.
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« Reply #57 on: September 05, 2012, 10:43:14 am » |
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thanks for letting us know wht's going on. All the best in these difficlut times and take care
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« Reply #58 on: September 05, 2012, 11:41:39 am » |
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Ian,
Thank you for keeping up dated on Deb's situation.
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